Those who want to make it so are missing something.
When we have a partner, it is not about sharing the chores equally.
It is about giving.
When both understand this, life becomes joy and even bliss.
There I was in my first apartment after leaving home.
Every morning I would wake up to a sink full of dirty dishes.
It took a little while to realize I may be doing dishes for some time. (It was true. I still wash dishes.)
So, I made a decision. Why not just choose to enjoy doing dishes. So I did.
I took me years to realize I could choose joy in other areas of life. (In fact, I wrote a book about it: The Zen of Joy. How to Rewire Your Brain for Happiness and Success. http://zenofjoy.com/ )
Back to our “social justice” issue.
In a partnership, if we try to share our workload 50/50 we are doomed to failure.
When both partners give it 100%, the relationship becomes magic.
Joy, love, happiness and bliss abounds.
Partly, it has to do with realizing that the act of giving is joy in and of itself.
When we give from the heart we receive more than the recipient.
Part of that is realizing that any so called chore can be made into joy.
It is just a choice.
What chore can you reframe and make into joy today?
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